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Part 3

Co-Dreaming

⏱ 1–2 hours  ·  Individual + Couple

This exercise is a guided visualisation for relationships. It will offer you a space to dive deep and recognise your hopes and dreams for the future, to guide your partner(s) to find their hopes and dreams and then offer a space for sharing, connecting, and exploring similarities and differences in your dreams. From there you will be able to support, encourage and align your dreams, allowing them to unfold while simultaneously letting your partner(s) in to be an informed and supportive cheerleader on your journey.

Before you start: Allow ~30–45 minutes for the guided visualisation and 45–60 minutes for sharing together. These can be completed in one sitting with a short break, or continued on a different date. Before starting please consider if you would like to listen to the recordings of the exercise read by Drew, Giuli or DYI. There are 3 ways to go about this exercise:
  1. Go to the recording and press play and let the voice guide you through the visualisation
  2. Read each section in turns as a couple: You both dream simultaneously and complete the sections after each stage. Person A starts with the first script and person B does the second.
  3. Take turns reading the full script: Reading the whole exercise for Person A, followed by the whole exercise for Person B. This allows both partners to fully immerse themselves in the activity, although it reveals the visualisation journey to the second dreamer.
🎧 Guided Visualisation

Press play, close your eyes, and follow the journey together.
At each pause, open your eyes and use the note boxes below to capture what arose.

How to use the script: The recording guides you through each stop. If you'd prefer to read instead, expand any section using the arrow. Each script box is optional.

The Journey

Opening, Grounding & Connection

Read the Opening script

Take a gentle deep breath in…
And a long soft breath out…

You are invited to close your eyes or soften your gaze.
Come into your space.
Become aware of your body.
Relax your forehead.
Relax your eyes.
Relax your jaw and mouth.

Feel your heart gently beating in your chest, steady and alive.
Feel your body connected on the ground.
Feel the air around you, wrapping you in a gentle embrace.

Now, become aware of the person you are journeying with.
Sense their presence. Feel the invisible threads that connect you.

There's nothing to do right now except be here, together.
Let silence surround you like a soft blanket.
You are safe. You are ready.
You are open to dreaming together.

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Ten Years From Now

Read the Ten Years script

Allow yourself to drift ten years into the future…

You have built a life that feels rich, expansive, meaningful.

Where are you living?
What surrounds you?
What does your home feel like when you walk through the door?
What is an ordinary, beautiful day like for you both?

Who are you becoming - individually and together?
What legacy are you shaping together in the world?

(pause)

Now, gently open your eyes.

Take one minute to write down anything you want to remember: images, feelings, words.

No need to overthink. Simply capture what is alive within you.

(pause)

When you're ready, gently close your eyes again, and let's continue the dream…

Your reflections
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Five Years From Now

Read the Five Years script

Float gently back to your visualisation.
Imagine life five years from now…

You are creating something extraordinary.
You are in the middle of your journey, building, nurturing, expanding.

What are you working on together?
What does your daily rhythm feel like?
How do you navigate joy, challenges, growth?
What makes you proud of each other?

(pause)

Open your eyes.
Take a minute to capture your impressions, anything you wish to hold close.

(pause)

Now, returning to your dreaming…

Your reflections
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Three Years From Now

Read the Three Years script

See yourselves three years into the future…

Your roots have deepened.

There is trust, flow, movement.

What does a typical week look like?
What traditions or rituals anchor you?
How do you celebrate life's big and small moments together?

(pause)

Open your eyes.

Take one minute to write down what touches your heart.

Let's keep exploring…

Your reflections
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One Year From Now

Read the One Year script

Come closer to the present, one year from today.

What changes have taken root?
What choices have you made in the past year that shaped your path?
What is blossoming in your life together?

(pause)

Open your eyes.

Take a moment to note any feelings, images, or dreams.

(pause)

And now… even closer still…

Your reflections
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One Month From Now

Read the One Month script

See yourselves just one month into the future…

What first steps have you already taken?
What small, significant changes are already in motion?

(pause)

Open your eyes.

Capture the essence of what is starting to bloom.

(pause)

Almost there…

Your reflections
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Tomorrow, One Day From Now

Read the Tomorrow script

Now imagine… just one day from now.

What small action will you take to honor the dream you hold in your heart today?
What feeling, energy, or word will you carry forward into tomorrow?

(pause)

Open your eyes one final time.

This is your last moment to write down what came up. Capture anything that feels important.

Your reflections
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Close the exercise (~5 min)

Read the Closing script

And now…

Rest in the gratitude of having dreamed together.

You have planted seeds.

You have honored your shared heart.

When you feel ready, open your eyes fully, return to one another.

Share a smile. A touch. A word of thanks.

And if you wish, speak softly:

"Thank you for dreaming with me."
"I see you."
"I believe in what we are building."

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Come together, share your reflections (~45–60 min)

When you're both ready, come back together. Take turns sharing what arose during the journey. Listen with open hearts and genuine curiosity.
  • What images or feelings stayed with you most?
  • What surprised you about what came up?
  • Where do you notice alignment in your visions?
  • Where do you see differences, and how might you honour both?
  • What do you want to remember from what your partner shared?
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